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Old 09-27-2009, 12:14 AM   #1
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Help me out here ladies

So I have two wonderful kids my son will be three at the end of next month and my daughter will be two in March. We live with my parents and will til they die or move to a home. The thing is lately I have really been wanting another baby. My husband and I have talked about this a lot after our daughter was born and both don't know if we want more or not. But lately that is all I can think about, is having another baby. I think I really only want one more. I feel very blessed for the family that I do have, my daughter is the first girl in 63 years on my husbands side of the family. I will be 26 tomorrow and my husband is 27. We both said that he will get the big V when he is thirty. So I'm torn. I just don't know what to do. I huge part of me wants another baby and another part of me wants to run head first into a wall just for thinking about another kid. Please let me know what you think or if you have been in a situation like this and what did you do.
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Old 10-06-2009, 09:52 AM   #2
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Seems to me only you and your other can make up your minds on this one but sitting down and making a list of the pros and cons is always a good place to start for me.



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Old 10-06-2009, 03:58 PM   #3
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I agree with Hatter! It took Staff and I 4 years to even think about having another and here we are. Kids are a wonderful blessing and I believe only you and your loved one can make that decision. I am sure you are both WONDERFUL parents and your children are loved.... only you both can make that call! Good Luck and Best Wishes! Keep us updated!
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Old 10-06-2009, 04:43 PM   #4
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I'm a long way off from having kids of my own, so bear with me here... but why do you want another one so badly? You've got two youngin's already. Seems to me a third would be a handfull with the other two being so young.
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Old 10-06-2009, 05:19 PM   #5
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putting 3 thru collage is a hard thought to swallow, but it seems your situation is a little different to what I'm used to. In my family when you get married you move out, and start a home of your own then think about kids.
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Old 10-06-2009, 09:22 PM   #6
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in this day and age 2 is enough for anyone. from my experiance of my mother in law living with us for the last 7+ years I do not envy your situation. kids only need their 2 parents to make them mind. it's tough when a grandparent gets involved and wants to correct a child and does the complete opposit of what you would do.

do yourselves and your kids a favor , get your own place before having anymore.
we have offerd to build my mother in law a guest house out back and all kinds of stuff , nothing works. she is scared of her own shadow and won't stay alone.
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Old 10-06-2009, 11:41 PM   #7
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give me your zip and i will get shipping,i have one of each i can send you.

*no returns* good luck in whatever you choose,maybe make a list of pro's and con's and see what you come up with.
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Old 10-07-2009, 12:06 AM   #8
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It's funny that only us guys have posted here. With dealing with the x it seemed it was a hormonal/woman thing. She wanted another child after our boy was about two or three. Every thing was good until he was no longer a baby, when he started growing up she lost that "baby" feeling and wanted/needed that feeling back. Not sure how she feels now but I know that issue won't work with her new "relationship".
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Old 10-07-2009, 12:07 AM   #9
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Old 10-07-2009, 01:39 AM   #10
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i am having enough fun paying for one, could not imagine paying on three of them.
I sometimes think I want another one as well, but we have pretty much decided to do foster or just adopt.
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Old 01-14-2010, 10:06 PM   #11
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Thanks everyone. Pat and I have been talking about this again just the other night, we have decided that we are going to pray for the next three weeks, when my bc starts over. And just wait for God to give us the answer right now. Oh and on top of everything we are thinking we are going to homeschool our kids til jr high as well
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Hey, so Im a little late on a reply and all but...I think that you should go with "whatever happens, happens". I had to have a hysterectomy when I was barely 23 and only had one precious baby =( I was very sad for a long time but then realized that if its meant to be, it will be and if not, then sobeit. Now, I have 3 wonderful children (1 biological and 2 step children, but I honestly consider them all equal and love them to pieces). Children are amazing and precious. Cherish the beautiful babies you have and let God handle the rest =)

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Thanks, that is what we are thinking as well. Even though I'm now to the point where I'm thinking two is enough. They are a hand full those two . We have both said that if we get pregnant then that is what God wants us to have.
Only I really hope God does not do it soon since I'm trying to lose the rest of the baby weight from the first two .
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